In the many-worlds hypothesis, the wavefunction does not collapse, but rather parts of a universal wavefunction (of which you are a part) become decoherent.
This is a much more palatable than measurement somehow triggering a collapse of the wavefunction. But it doesn’t really help with the question of why we observe what we do. How does observation cause decoherence, and why so quickly??
Watch this video about ‘which way’ double-slit experiments and the quantum eraser experiment. It’s completely fucked.